If you talk to anyone who has played games, they can tell stories of awkward hits and ones in the sweet spot. Decision making is like this
From the Blog on decisions
We all have decision making preferences. It pays to pause and figure it out especially for moments when we are paralysed.
In all our lives, there are decisions we don’t get to make and things we are told to do. Kindness is always within our control.
The challenge is that big brother and big mother are two sides of the same coin. And cookies, well, cookies are tracking devices uses by big brother.
There is often safety in our gut no doubt as it is the inbuilt instinct that keeps us who we are. This can be powerful, but unhelpful when we seek change.
Decisions are rarely a choice between right and wrong; decisions are most often judgements between alternatives; multiple alternatives.
We have come to believe there is a hierarchy of decisions, of choice. Yet the hierarchy is not known or shared as is different for every person and decision